Recovery Counselling Services - Toronto Ontario adolescent
and adult treatment centre for substance abuse, drug addiction and
chemical dependency.
Located in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, led by Hamish White, Recovery
Counselling and Intervention Services is an association of experienced,
qualified and caring chemical dependency specialists dedicated to
providing timely and professional, out patient alcohol and drug counselling
to adolescents, young adults, adults and families. Assessment, Intervention
Training, and Referral Services. Skilled in treatment centre matching.
International network of resources Individual, Group and family Counselling
Sessions A wide range of services, designed to promote a lifestyle
of abstinence from alcohol and other drugs, is available to our clients
including...
Treatment Planning and Case Management Services include step by step
support and appropriate referrals to...
Warning Signs for Parents, Teachers
and Friends
Behaviour listed below is indication that a substance
abuse problem may exist in a young persons life. If parents, school
personnel or other significant persons in an adolescent's life observe
these warning signs, a cooperative effort should be undertaken. An assessment
should be made by a competent professional should be made to determine
if alcohol/chemical dependency exits, or if another problem requiring
professional help is present. Once an appropriate assessment is made,
treatment alternatives can be explored with the adolescent and family
members.
School/Academic Achievement
- Sudden drop or gradual lowering of grades and achievement levels
(reasons unclear)
- Academic failure (sudden)
- Skipping of classes or days
- Drops out of sports and other extra-curricular activities
- Disrespect/defiance towards teachers, rules and regulations
- Suspensions/expulsions
- Inattentive in class
- Increase in disciplinary actions
- Sleeps in class
- Wanders in hallways or school grounds
- Frequently asks to be excused
- Lack of response to concern expressed by teacher,guidance counsellor
or any school staff regarding any of the above
- Excessive use of pager beeper telephone
- Writes drug slang and phrases on school notebooks and yearbook
Personal/Physical/Spiritual
- Easily upset, emotional state changed rapidly
Weight changes; drastic loss or gain
- Smell of alcohol on breath Odor of marijuana on clothing
- Slurred speech or changes in speech pattern
- More frequent physical injuries, bruises, scrapes or cuts
- Burn marks on clothes, in car or on hands
- Changes in hygiene, less care taken, wears same clothes over and
over
- Withdrawal from peers and family
- Very defensive especially concerning drugs and or alcohol using
behavior
- Changes in sexual behavior
- Blatant defiance, argumentative even hostile to parents
- Alcohol hangovers: throwing up, increased anxiety, headaches,shakes
- Reddened eyes and frequent use use of Eye drops Deep nagging persistent
cough-raspy sounding throat Lethargic attitudes, poor motivation;
seems to lose interest in many areas
- Undisciplined; doesn't get things done on time or as agreed
- Blackouts; periods of memory loss
- Sometimes inappropriately happy; sometimes inexplicably depressed
- Nervous, agitated, trouble sitting still Less hopeful and more cynical
about life
- Financial management erratic; spending more, needs more
- Paraphernalia kept; rolling papers, pipes, roach clips, eye drops
etc.
- Possession of pharmaceutical drugs like Ritalin or cough medicine,
cold medicine, motion sickness pills without any medical reason
- Sudden change in slang; "Druggie" behaviour observable,profanity
- Talk of suicide or suicide attempts
- Visits to emergency room or psychiatric hospital due to overdoses
or mental instability
Friends and Peer Group
- Changing attitude toward straight friends
- Change in peer group with little interest in old friends Parents
don't know friends; can't get names or addresses
- Begins to associate with an older crowd
- Fights with peers
Community/Legal
- DWI and/or drug-related arrests
- Accidents or near misses
- Speeding/carelessness on highway
- Thefts, assaults, or other infringements of law
- Sales of drugs, alcohol
- Drinking underage or in public parks
- Illegal possession of drugs
If parents, school personnel or other significant persons in an adolescent's
life observe these warning signs, a cooperative effort should be undertaken.
An assessment should be made by a competent professional should be
made to determine if alcohol/chemical dependency exits, or if another
problem requiring professional help is present. Once an appropriate
assessment is made, treatment alternatives can be explored with the
adolescent and family members. Hamish White and his team at Recovery
Counselling Services are expert at providing assessments and consultations
in a timely, professional and caring way. Give us a call, we can help.
Select here to see more on adolescent
services
Identifying
a problem with Alcohol and Drugs
Behavior listed below is
indication that a substance abuse problem may exist in a young persons
life.
DON'T do nothing or ignore the problem, hoping it is just a phase,
get help.
DON'T confront your adolescent about drinking while he or she is under
the influence.
DON'T make excuses to your spouse, family, friends or school authorities
for your child's behavior.
DON'T take responsibility for your child's drinking/drug problem. DON'T
accept as normal behaviour a stoned or drunk son or daughter who comes
home and creates havoc within the family.
DON'T accept property damage as a result of alcohol or drug use or impaired
behaviour as being acceptable.
DON'T nag, yell or scream about drinking or using.
DON'T clean up alcohol or drug created messes and predicaments.
DON'T let yourself be so ruled by the child's unacceptable behaviour
that you let it pull down your own behavior too.
DON'T view your kid as as lacking backbone or willpower
DON'T assume your child doesn't love you because of the way he /she
acts when using.
DON'T be angry with your child if you can help it. Chemical dependency
is an illness.
DON'T be patronizing or indulgent.
DON'T play amateur detective; following your offspring around the town
to see what he or she is doing is, for the most part, a waist of time
and strength.
DON'T give alcohol and or drug abusing adolescent any money, except
for minimal allowance.
DON'T give alcohol and or drug abusing adolescent the use of your car.
They could kill someone.
DON'T think that passing grades or even good marks are indicative of
there not being a problem.
DO ask for help if you think there is a problem with drugs or alcohol
with your kid.
DO wait to confront your child about his or her drinking or drug abuse
until he or she is not under the influence. give protection for the
child and others around him or her.
DO keep in mind that you are not responsible for your child's behaviour,
but to him or her. Making excuses isn't necessary.
DO allow your child to take responsibility for his or her drinking or
drug using behaviours. You are responsible for the environment.
DO provide consequences for drunken and loaded behaviour which cause
havoc in family life or destroy the home. Also require restitution for
any loss or destruction.
DO talk to your teenager about his drinking or drug use when sober.Keep
communication lines open. Use "I" messages. eg. I feel afraid when I
see you passed out on the floor.
DO allow your child to be responsible for his or her own messes and
predicaments. He sat on the burner, let him sit on the blisters. Consequences
are gifts.
DO allow your behaviour to be of you own choosing and not as a result
of being brought down by your child's drinking or drug using behaviours.
DO view your child as being out of control rather than lacking in backbone
or willpower. The addiction process is an illness.
DO remember that the way your child acts when drinking or using drugs
isn't an indication of lack of love. The drug takes over the personality
with drastic changes.
DO be patient with your child. Always let him or her save face with
alternatives. You are responsible for setting the alternatives.
DO maintain consistent consequences for drinking and drug using behaviour.
DO respect the privacy of your child. Monitor behaviour and use fact
as indicators instead of snooping. Use judgment if behaviour becomes
self-destructive.
DO give your child minimal allowance for chores performed in the home.
DO present consequences that that you are willing and able to back up.
Keep them logical and natural. Have child become involved in establishing
the rules in your home.
DO attempt to become involved and communicate with your child. Encouragement
is important for all ages. Kids are persons not "monsters" or "bums."
Do seek information and support. You're not alone but part of a network.
Teen Self Assessment
1. Have you ever felt the need to cut down on your alcohol or drug
use?
2. Have you ever had a complete loss of memory (said or done things
that you can not remember) while under the influence of alcohol or drugs?
3. Do close relatives or friends ever worry or complain about your
alcohol or drug use?
4. Have you ever been unable to stop drinking or using drugs when you
wanted to?
5. Has your alcohol or drug use ever created problems between you and
your parents, siblings, or friends?
6. Do you ever drink or use drugs in the morning?
7. Have you ever been told by a doctor, teacher, minister, or judge
to stop drinking or using drugs?
8. Have you ever been arrested, even for a few hours, because of behaviour
while intoxicated on alcohol or drugs?
9. Do you have unexplained periods of depression, nervousness, or anxiety,
or difficulty with sleep?
10. Have you used either alcohol or drugs in the last week?
11 Have you been evasive or have you lied about the amount of drugs
or alcohol you use to your friends?
12 Does Your Mom , brother , sister , or anyone else in your close
family a problem with alcohol or other drugs?
13 Have you ever taken alcohol or drugs to school, or used alcohol
or drugs at school?
14. Have you ever made a promise to yourself or others that you would
not drink or use drugs at school?
15. Do you wonder if alcohol or drug use making it difficult for you
to do your best at school , sports, hobbies, a job, or extracurricular
activities?
16. Do you hide your alcohol, joints , or pills so that you will have
a supply when your source is not available?
17. Have you ever skipped school, or left school to use alcohol or
drugs with friends or alone?
18. Have you ever been involved in a car accident, either as a passenger
or driver, where alcohol or drugs were involved or have you been charged
or investigated for driving while impaired ?
19. Are you spending more time alone because of your alcohol and drugs?
20. Have alcohol or drugs affected your sexual activity or desire ?
21. Have you noticed that you sometimes think of using alcohol or drugs
at inappropriate times (that is daydream or obsess about using)?
22. When people talk to you about your alcohol or drug use, do you
feel angry, guilty, or uncomfortable?
23. Have you ever neglected your obligations and responsibilities to
school, work, friends, or your family because of drinking or using?
24. Have you ever been in the hospital, an emergency room, or sent
to the doctor for an alcohol or drug problem?
25. Have you ever used alcohol or drugs when you were alone?
IF YOU HAVE ANSWERED YES TO...
Two of these questions...
Be aware that you are at high risk for the development of the disease
of chemical dependency.
Three of these questions...
You have a problem with substance abuse. See if you can stop using any
mood altering drug for 90 days. If you have difficulty with this, you
may already be chemically dependent.
Four or more of these questions...
You already have many of the critical symptoms of chemical dependence.
You or your parents should make an appointment for you to see a chemical
dependency professional for a more in depth assessment and for counselling
and treatment recommendations. You need to completely abstain from all
mood altering drugs but you will need help to do this. Many young people
find support by entering into a 12 step recovery programme like Alcoholics
Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous or an addiction specific youth group.
Recovery Counselling Services A team of experienced, qualified and
caring health professionals dedicated to providing quality, out-patient,
alcohol and drug counselling to adults and families.
Assessment Services:
Measures such as the Subtle Screening Inventory S.A.S.S.I. and the D.A.S.T.
and A.D.S. are employed including collateral information gathering from
families, and other involved health professionals. Detailed life and
drug use/abuse histories are taken and examined. Mental health issues
are explored and assessed. Recommendations, based on the assessment,
are then given to the client as to the best route to recovery.
Intervention Training:
Often families are not sure how to encourage their using family member
to get help. We can meet with concerned friends and family and using
step by step methodology train the families to intervene on their loved
onešs addiction or alcoholism.
Individual Counselling :
In weekly or biweekly sessions clients are encouraged to identify
addictive patterns and relapse issues. Clients are supported as they
develop a personal recovery programme that best supports their quest
for recovery and total abstinence. As these supports are developed and
maintained, family, vocational, and relationship issues can then be
addressed.
Group Counselling:
In weekly or biweekly sessions clients are encouraged to identify addictive
patterns and relapse issues. Clients are supported as they develop a
personal recovery programme that best supports their quest for recovery
and total abstinence. As these supports are developed and maintained,
family, vocational, and relationship issues can then be addressed.
Early Recovery Groups & After-Care Service:
These groups provide a structure to assist chemically dependent people
in early, pre- or post-treatment recovery in maintaining total abstinence
from all mood-altering chemicals while offering support and encouragement
to members as they establish supports in the 12- step community. Ideal
for clients who may have received their primary treatment elsewhere
in the province. The treatment team at R.C.S. is available to consult
with the therapists and discharge planners at these in-patient settings
to arrange for continuing care and "follow-up" for mutual
clients.
Stage ll Recovery Groups:
These groups are for those who have been involved in recovery for at
least one year, have accepted their chemical dependency, and who wish
to work on issues that relate to their on-going recovery. Members are
attending their 12-step meetings on a regular basis and have developed
a positive relationship with their sponsors. They report that the groups
provide them with a forum wherein they can work on difficult and sensitive
issues in a supportive and honest environment.
Co-dependency Groups:
For women only, these 12 week closed weekly group sessions help empower
women to look after them selves in a healthy and self-fulfilling way.
Often partners and parents of our chemically-dependent clients report
that they are reeling from the roller coaster ride of addiction and
have developed maladaptive coping skills. This support group allows
it's members some peace, some validation and help to develop new more
effective techniques to deal with the feelings aroused by the co-dependent
relationships they have found themselves in.
Intensive Out-Patient:
Some clients find that a combination of individual counselling and attendance
at one or more of our groups, in addition to A.A. or N.A., provides
them with the support and balance they need to sustain an effective
recovery without having to attend a centre.
Adolescent Services:
Chemically dependent teens and their families often have very special
needs. Special after-care and family groups are provided to meet their
requirements. Separate assessment, intervention, treatment planning,
and referral services are provided to families, agencies and schools
for this population. Adolescent Services
Parent Group:
This weekly group is designed to provide a therapeutic and supportive
forum for parents of teens who may or may not be in recovery. Parents
& guardians report that they felt they were alone until they joined
this group and began addressing specific issues common to families in
early recovery.
In-Patient Treatment:
In-Patient Treatment: Clients assessed as needing in-patient treatment
before they can access our services can be referred to a treatment centre
for primary treatment. We are experienced in matching clients with the
most appropriate centres either in Ontario or out-of- province.
Referral Process:
Simply call Hamish White at (416) 640-1061 to arrange for an assessment
or interview.
Payment:
Generally, $25 per group, $95 to $125 per hour for counselling, family
counselling and intervention training.
For Families
An open letter to my family & friends:
I am an alcoholic/addict. I need help. Don't allow me to lie to you
and accept it for the truth, for in so doing, you encourage me to lie.
The truth may be painful but get at it. I have a disorder that makes
my using the most important pastime in my life. I will protect it with
all my heart.
Don't let me outsmart you. This only teaches me to avoid responsibility
and to lose respect for you at the same time.
Don't let me exploit you or take advantage of you. In so doing,
you become an accomplice to my evasion of responsibility. Don't lecture
me, moralize, scold, praise, blame, or argue when I'm drunk or sober
high or clean. And don't pour out or throw away my substances; you may
feel better, but it solves nothing in the long term.
Don't accept my promises. This is just my method of postponing pain.
And don't keep switching agreements. If an agreement is made, stick
to it.
Don't lose your temper with me. It will destroy you and any possibility
of you helping me.
Don't allow your anxiety for me compel you to do what I must do for
myself.... Don't cover up or abort the consequences of my drinking and
using. It reduces the crisis but perpetuates the illness. Each time
you pick up the tab for my irresponsible/unacceptable behavior you buy
the next round.
Above all, don't run away from reality as I do. Chemical Dependency,
Alcoholism, Addiction, my illness, gets worse as my using continues.
Start now to learn, to understand, and to plan for my recovery. I need
help from a doctor, an addiction counsellor, a recovered alcoholic,
from AA or NA. I cannot help myself. You too can get help from an organization
or person who knows about my disorder. ( Nar-Anon, Al-Anon, parent groups
etc.)
I hate myself, but I love you. To do nothing is the worst choice you
can make for me.
Please help me,
Your Alcoholic/Addict
Peace of Mind
What we are and what we are not. Affiliations, policies around confidentiality
etc.
Recovery Counseling Services is not affiliated with any religious organization,
denomination sect or cult. We are not connected to, or are supported
by, any outside enterprise nor are affiliated financially with any treatment
centre or cause.
We do believe that alcoholism and addiction can develop as a progressive
primary disease or disorder that once it reaches a certain phase, treatment
and recovery require total abstinence. We recognize that people can
die from untreated chemical dependency.
We do endorse the Minnesota Model of
12 step chemical dependency recovery as fostered and developed by the
Hazelden Foundation in Minnesota
U.S.A. www.hazelden.org This model employs and combines the clinical
methods of helping professions like psychology, psychiatry, social-work,
nursing and addiction counselling with the 12 step programmes originated
by Alcoholics Anonymous. This model
is accepted world wide as an excellent, effective and professional method
to help addicted clients.
Our treatment team is well qualified professionally. All of our staff
are either certified by the Addiction Intervention
Association of Canada or by their own colleges of social work, medicine
or nursing.
We are an out-patient service only but we are experienced in matching
our clients with appropriate in-patient centers when indicated. (See
the Referral page)
Our assessments are intensive and thorough employing recognized measures
such as the S.A.S.S.I. (Substance Abuse Subtle Screening Inventory)
www.sassi.com The M.A.S.T. the .D.A.S.T. in addition to Collateral information
is gathered from other family members, teachers, health professionals.
This proceedure allows to properly evaluate our clients condition and
to make appropriate and effective treatment recommendations.
Our service is completely confidential, although we feel it is a great
step for someone to reach out and ask for help, we recognize that privacy
concerns are very real and we take every effort to ensure patient confidentiality.
Often, in order to make proper treatment recommendations it is may be
necessary to speak with other health professionals, family members or
employers. This will never be done without a clients permission. A client
at Recovery Counselling Service must give written permission for us
to communicate in any way with anyone at any time. This permission can
also be revoked by the client at any time. In the case of a under-age
client, the parents must give this permission. When working with adolescents
and their families, and are providing an assessment, we keep the details
of what the young person tells us confidential, but, we get permission
from the young person to share the results of the assessment and any
treatment recommendations with the whole family, who, is in this case,
the client.
In essence we work for you. We are here to help you and/or your family
guide yourselves to a healthy and rewarding place, to help you acquire
and learn to use the tools needed to live you life in a fulfilling and
happy way.
Referral Process:
Simply call (416) 640-1061 to arrange for an assessment or interview.
Location:
Recovery Counselling Services
4211 Yonge St., Suite 302
Toronto, Ontario
M2P 2A9
Just north of York Mills, and the York Mills Subway, just south of the 401 on the east side of Yonge in the building where there is a Swiss Chalet.
Parking Available
Send email to sober@recoverycounselling.on.ca

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